SAN FRANCISCO – *Congratulations to Abby Tallmer of New York City!* Abby has been part of the NYC queer leather scene for more than 30 years. She recently had a memoir/essay called *“*Losing the Meatpacking District: A Queer History of Leather Culture*“* published in the book “Best Sex Writing 2012″ (Cleis Press, Edited by Rachel…