South Bend Kink Munch – June 11

South Bend Kink, SBKSOUTH BEND — It is time for another great South Bend Kink Munch. It is time to come out and get some fresh spring air, and enjoy the fresh spring air. Come on out and connect or reconnect with open-minded friends in a safe, private environment.

Hope to see everyone there!

Come join us for some food, fun, and friendly conversation. Visit with old friends and make some new ones!

Please RSVP —> South Bend Kink munch June 11th

“Many people are eager to accept the common misconception that Dominants can’t or won’t take orders, or conversely, that because he does, he must not really be a Dominant. Just because every teo-year old child is at the center of his or her own universe and doesn’t want to be told what to do doesn’t mean that every Dominant must behave like a two-year old and throw a tantrum when he doesn’t get his way. It is, however, why it’s important to be able to differentiate between what a person does and who a person is”. Domination & Submission: The BDSM Relationship Handbook.

“Is a person’s submission to her Dominant a gift, or is it a quid pro quo? Most people would respond that every submissive expects something in return for her submission. That something may include love, respect, guidance, leadership, mentoring, or affection, to name just a few of the infinite possibilities. So yes, there usually are strings attached. But that isn’t necessarily a bad thing”. Domination & Submission: The BDSM Relationship Handbook.

“Every Dominant should make it a point to ask his submissive some variation of the following: “Have I empowered you? If so, how?”” Domination & Submission: The BDSM Relationship Handbook.

“The very serious question of how much disobedience or disrespect is too much can only be answered by the individuals in that relationship, and will almost always raise questions about whether or not the submissive is “topping from the bottom.” It is my humble opinion that any submissive who routinely tops from the bottom should not be considered a true submissive. That isn’t to say she isn’t a good person. It just means she isn’t submissive”. Domination & Submission: The BDSM Relationship Handbook.