SBK Quarterly Play Party – Jan. 4

South Bend Kink LogoSOUTH BEND – It’s that time again!  We would like to leave plenty of time for new members to be vetted.  We were very happy with how the first party turned out and we are looking forward to hosting this a second time!

Our spacious Dungeon will include:

A Rope Area, 3 St. Andrew’s Crosses, 2 Spanking Benches, 2 massage tables (one with a fully-equipped wax station)

With 8 stations available, there will be plenty of time and opportunity for everyone to play who wants to.  We will also have a separate and adjacent room for socializing and conversation so scenes are uninterrupted by noise.

The Rates are $18 for singles, and $30 for couples.  This is non-refundable.

There is a 50 member limit for this party.

If you want to attend, make sure you don’t wait until the last minute. The tickets will be sold on a first come, first served basis.  Slots will fill up quickly!  Online registration will end on Friday, December 20th.  See below for registration after this date.

There is a strict policy with the venue against nudity.  Pasties and thongs are the bare minimum that has to be worn.  If you do not have pasties, we will have some available for sale at the party.  Street clothes must be worn before entering or exiting the building, this includes smoking breaks and going outside the venue.

******************************************************************************************************* As we have discussed, there is a vetting and registration process in order to attend.  It has always been our goal to provide a safe and comfortable environment at our events.  The vetting program is the solution we have found to ensure that.

In order to be vetted to attend this party, a member must have done one of the following:

1.  If you attended the last play party, you are already vetted. 2.  Attended at least 2 SBK events in the past.  This includes munches, ladies night out, class and demo events, and discussion groups. OR 3.  Provide 2 references from members in the Northern Indiana/Michigan community that we feel are reliable references.  We would prefer that these references have attended our events as well.  Please contact Sirs_julianna to discuss this.

Please be sure to read the steps for vetting and registration below so the process can go expediently.  This is a PRIVATE party, so discretion lies with the South Bend Kink Leadership of who is, and is not, vetted to attend.


Vetting & Registration Process:

1.  RSVP as “Going” on the Fetlife event page.

We will not begin the vetting process until you know for sure that you can and will make it.  Because we have a limited registration, We do not want to fill up slots with people who might not be there.  “Might be going” RSVP’s will not begin the next step of registration.  Once this is changed to “going”, it will begin.

2.  Look for approval email.

You will receive an email via Fetlife from Sirs_julianna letting you know if you are approved through the vetting process.  An approval letter will be the case for almost everyone in the group, so do not be afraid that you won’t make the cut.  If you have any questions about this please email Sirs_julianna and we can discuss it directly.

3.  Register and pay for the event.

You will receive the registration information in the approval email.  This will give you the location details, more detailed party information, and registration information to sign up.

4.  Watch for your confirmation email.

You will get an email confirmation from the online registration confirming your registration was received.  You DO NOT need to print out your tickets.  We are making this as paperless as possible.  If you want confirmation that you are on the roster, please feel free to email Sirs_julianna and I will look for you. ************************************************************************************************ If slots are still available on Decembers 20th, we will move to a “late registration” procedure. The online registration will be closed at that time so you will need to pay directly in cash.  Please email Sirs_julianna to discuss how we can figure this out.  ALL tickets must be pre-pay!



We will still require a Photo ID at the door to verify age and identity once you arrive.  If you would like to speed up the door process you can print and fill out these forms, here is the link to the PDF files.  You only need to fill out the “Attended Information Form” if you have never attended a class or demo in the past.  The “Play Party Dungeon Rules” and “General Waiver” are both required at the door to enter.  If you want to fill out these and scan them in an email, you can send it to

Feel free to email Sirs_julianna, or any of the other South Bend Kink Leaders with any questions you have.  We want this first party to go as smoothly, and flawlessly as possible.

We can’t wait to see you all again on January 4!

Fetlife Event Page:

Date & Time: Saturday, January 04, 2014 · 7:00 PM – 1:30 AM
Given at time of Registration
Cost: $18 Singles/$30 Couples
Dress code: Fetishwear