BK Workshop Series -How to Manage the ‘Socially Awkward Lonely Single Guy/Girl, Jan. 31

BLOOMINGTON, Ind. – This Friday, we will have two events happening at the Casa del Mar. Both the BK Workshop Discussion and party start at 8pm. The Discussion, How to Manage the ‘Socially Awkward Lonely Single Guy/Girl (And Not Be One Yourself), will be led by Boi Kris in the Fireplace Room. You are welcome to participate as you will or move to other sections of the house. However, if you are not confirmed for the play party, I will have to ask that you leave by 9pm.


There is a lot of talk about “protecting the submissives from creepers”.  Usually the ‘creeper’ or ‘troll’ is really a socially awkward, lonely person looking for connection, but not always. While it is important for the community to self-police, it is even more important for individuals, especially submissive folks, with their need to please sometimes overriding common sense, to learn to protect themselves!  In this workshop, Boi Kris will focus on easy strategies to keep yourself safe when meeting others, as well as offering some ways to deal with unwanted attention online and in the real world without feeling like a “Bad Submissive – No Cookie!”  Also covered, essential tools for approaching others without seeming like the ‘lonely single guy/girl’, no matter what you’re into.

Boi Kris, with his powerhouse attitude and profound passion for teaching and service, is a cheerful, outgoing boi who loves to network and socialize. He has been a part of the BDSM community since the early 1990s, including a year serving as half of the International Power Exchange 2012. He is a certified Laughter Yoga leader (including his own variant, Kinky Laughter Yoga!), and is the founder of Indiana Newbie Sponsors, providing a venue for experienced players to give back to the community by offering their advice and support to newcomers.  An enthusiastic switch, he loves challenging people’s expectations, topping for heavy impact play, and sharing his vision and enthusiasm for service, no matter which end of the flogger he happens to find himself.  With hundreds of workshops, discussions and presentations under his belt, Boi Kris brings an enthusiastic and approachable energy to the wide variety of BDSM lifestyle topics he shares with audiences all over the country.

Boi Kris has presented at: Southwest Leather Conference, Great Lakes Leather Alliance, Beyond Leather, Power Exchange Summit, Kinky Kollege,  SINergy, Bluegrass Leather Pride, TransCampOUT, OhioSMART, Galleria Domain 2, Indiana Younger Kink, LRA, Beat My Valentine, Red, Black, and Blue Ball, Bloomington Kink, Kinky Indiana Slaves and Submissives, Kinko de Mayo, Just Play, Terre Haute Munch, Evansville Munch, Derby City Munch, La Fortress, Indiana Kink Society, NLA Indianapolis, Indiana  Masters and Slaves, Beyond the Love, and more.

RSVP HERE!: https://fetlife.com/events/227436