your behavior should always reflect a willingness to see to the needs and desires of your Dominant at all times. your role as a submissive is to serve. Is your Dominant about to light up a cigarette? Is her/her coffee cup empty or has it grown cold? Does he/she need a chair to sit on?…
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Playtime Explored – Knifeplay
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Playtime Explored – Role/Play
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•Role-playing fantasies is a great tool; they assist in awakening creativity and imagination in the couple, Role-playing can also help divert from routine sex, and may heighten and enrich sexual relations. The beauty of role-playing is that you can be anyone you want: anyone you have ever wanted to be or anyone your partner has…
Opinion, Playtime Explored
Playtime Explored: When is pain not pain?
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•Often people outside the scene don’t see the appeal in any of the things SMBD do that look painful. What’s enjoyable about being hit? Where’s the fun in getting bruised? Well, think about this. Have you ever had intense sex and afterwards noticed bite marks on your neck of which you had no memory? What…
National, News
Leather-Levi Weekend in California – “TWISTED SUMMER CAMP”
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•UPPER LAKE, Calif. – Leather-Levi Weekend will be held from Thursday, August 9 through Sunday, August 12, 2012 at the Saratoga Springs Resortin Upper Lake, CA. LLW offers attendees the opportunity to learn more about themselves, their sexuality and the San Francisco Leather-Levi community in a relaxed setting. Please check out the other pages on this…
Feature, News
Interview with Mr. Mid-West Leather 2011 Mike Prater
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•Mike Prater, Mr. Mid-West Leather 2011 EVANSVILLE, Ind. – I had the great privilege to sit down with and interview Mr. Mid-West Leather 2011, Mike Prater. We talked about his title and his perception of the leather/kink community in his small town. Talking with Mike, about how being a titleholder was a life-changing experience…
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Northern Plains Leather Sir Fund-raiser
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•Paul BrownChicago Den MILWAUKEE – Join us On June 16th, 2012 9 PM at KRUZ 354 E. National Ave, Milwaukee WI for a fundraiser for Northern Plains Leather Sir Chip Travel fund. It is a MAUL bear night, with Jell-O Shots, 50/50 Raffle, and Raffle Prizes. Then On June 17th, if you didn’t get enough,…
Kentucky, News
The 3rd annual Big Baskets of Bluegrass Fundraiser
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•Paul BrownChicago Den LEXINGTON, Ky. – Kentucky Bourbon Bears presents the 3rd Annual Big Baskets of the Bluegrass Fundraiser on June 23 at 9 p.m! Donation theme baskets will be matched with cute and sexy underwear modeled at Crossings Lexington by hot men of Central Kentucky and backed with great music! The baskets and matching…
Opinion, Playtime Explored
Playtime Explored: What and Why BDSM
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•“BDSM” is an acronym of “B&D” (Bondage & Discipline), “D&S” (Dominance & Submission), and “S&M” (sadomasochism). “BDSM” refers to any or all of these things, and a lot of stuff besides. Tying up your lover is BDSM; so is flogging that person, or bossing that person around, or any of a thousand other things. BDSM…